Healing Heart
Does that heartbreak feel overwhelming? Is it too strong to bear? I’ve got words for you.
We have many struggles in this world and there is one who gets it all because he has experienced it.
As tempting as it is to get back at the person who hurt, even if it seems easy, consider giving it to God
Holding on to a situation, hurt or person can be more harmful than we know. Why should we make that leap to letting go.l
The reason for why something happened can nag at us. Hopefully these steps bring you peace.
How do we know the struggle we are currently going through is because of our past? It takes time to process and analyze.
Circumstances may not look like it is even possible. So is it even possible for a happy ending to occur? DO they even exist?
That break up may feel like a tornado just blew through and not much is left behind, but you, my dear, have so much right now.
Sometimes we experience so much loss in our lives that at some point that loss takes on a life of its own and becomes more than we want to handle. Have we become bitter?
It’s so hard to be in this position especially when all we want to do is get out. Here are some steps that will help us.
It’s important to allow ourselves time to grieve. But how do we know we even are in a situation where we need to grieve.
Finding a way to get our emotions out can be healing and revealing. But we can’t always say what we want or how we feel. Here’s something that helps.
As much as we want to go after the one who hurt us, it is not our job. It is not up to us to handle everything. There’s someone who’s got us!
We are tempted many times to take the battle into our own hands and fight our enemy. But here’s a reminder that the battle belongs to the Lord.
Betrayal is deep. Not only can it hurt us to our emotional core, but it can then transcend into our spiritual core. But God has a plan to use that betrayal and propel us to the next level.
When your heart breaks whether by death or breakup or any sort of loss your emotions can be all over the place. Unfortunately for us we are now on a journey we must go through. But with time we will get through it.
If there is one thing I have learned is that time is a necessary part of healing. It’s part of the complete package. Processing what happened being part of this.
We can say we forgive someone but just saying it doesn’t mean you are doing it. Sometimes we have to go deeper to see if we really do. There is a great blessing when we get to the bottom of it.
One day God told me to pray for the man who purposely hurt me. I absolutely did not want to. I wanted him to suffer. It’s one thing to forgive but to pray for him to be blessed?!
There are many reasons for sharing with others the story of overcoming and beating challenges aside from becoming an amazing story teller that could possibly go down in history. It’s also a major step in healing.
I know he hurt you and broke your heart. As years have gone by we still find ourselves looking at them. God is saying, Don’t look at them, look at Me.
Healing after a broken relationship is not only for your sake but for the sake of others around you as well. Believe it or not we do have an impact on those around us. One more reason to become whole.
When we have gotten hurt in relationships, we have talked about forgiving and letting it go. Two different challenges that are good for us to move on in our growing and glowing. But eventually we will find ourselves with the question of how do we trust again.
Have you ever thought of writing a thank you letter to the one who couldn’t break you? Not a hateful letter but a thank you. Because if it wasn’t for them you wouldn’t be where you are right now.
Don’t think being broken means its over. You had a light in you that the enemy stole. But God created light. With His help we can be restored.
Healing is a process that can be different for everyone. So how do you know you are going through it?